HOW TO BE MORE SOCIABLE WITH 7 PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICKS TO OVERCOME NERVE, TIMIDITY AND SOCIAL ANXIETY
Maybe you have not noticed or have overlooked that once those people who are now important in your life (your best friend, your partner …) were once real strangers to you. What would have happened if none of you had taken the step to open the first conversation? Quite possibly now these people would not be part of your life and you would not have a gap in theirs if that day you crossed you had not acted out of fear or shame.
That is precisely what social interaction is about, knowing and attracting extraordinary people to our lives. The human being is social by nature, so, he needs to relate to other people. But sometimes it is not so easy to start a conversation with a stranger or stranger. The fear of rejection, shame or what the other person will think of us play a big role when it comes to throwing ourselves into that “social pool”.
Like any skill, being more sociable requires practice so that you end up dominating it. Dare to leave your comfort zone to force yourself to interact with other extraordinary people. You will see that little by little you are seeing yourself more secure and comfortable. Leave behind your shyness and lose that fear of rejection to transform your social relationships forever. Here you have 7 psychological tricks to overcome nerves, shyness and social anxiety to be more sociable.
- THE THEORY OF THE POOL
In twenty years you will regret the things you did not do more than the things you did. “
– Mark Twain
What makes life worthwhile is knowing and connecting at a deep level with other human beings. People have an innate desire to connect with others but at the same time there is also that fear of approaching a person who is unknown. That fear of approaching a stranger is very normal and we will never take it away. But that is also the beauty of social relationships, although there is that fear of making the first contact we are going to do it and we will want to keep trying.
It is part of our nature to feel that fear and even if you have all the experience of the world you will not stop feeling it. You must remember the reason why you are here: connect with people and build unforgettable bonds. That is one of the greatest secrets of life and for which we must risk. Therefore, enjoy the process and make it as fun and exciting as possible, because it is what will drive you to improve your social life and to achieve an extraordinary existence.
- HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR TO REJECT FOREVER
When you are in an interaction with someone, you must give, give the best of yourself, give good moments, be interested in that person, get excited …
In this sense the fear of rejection will go completely because when you give something to someone you can not get nervous, however when you expect to get something from that person things change, you get nervous, you are afraid, etc. Therefore, the best trick to overcome the fear of rejection is to stop wanting to get things from others and start giving everywhere.
How can you know what to say to whom I have before you so that I am comfortable? Very simple: working on your identity. To have conversations that impact others you have to start being someone interesting. To achieve this, there is nothing like being curious, living experiences, exploring new things, learning the most, working on your dreams and passions …
When you have an extraordinary life, you eliminate that fear of rejection from your head because you do not really need anyone in your life to complete it. Just if someone does not want to talk to you that day, you will not take it personally and you will look for the next person to chat because you have a mission: to meet extraordinary people and give them the opportunity to get to know you.
The first time you talk to someone you are not asking if you can talk to him / her, but you are communicating what your life is and that you invite a few minutes to join you. Your life will remain the same whether you join it or not this person.
- THE SECRET TO SPEAK WITH EASILY KNOWLEDGE
Surely this step you have done before and unconsciously. Have you noticed that older people seem to feel less and less afraid of rejection? Well, the key to start interactions is nothing other than discussing anything in the environment and being natural and spontaneous. Everyone wonders what will be the perfect phrase to talk to someone but really the best principle is a simple phrase full of spontaneity. Do not think too much.
- ORGANIZE EVENTS
Normally people leave for 3 reasons: to disconnect from their daily routine, to meet more people and to connect with people of the opposite sex.
In a club or event, you will meet people who are afraid or even terrified of talking to other people, but at the same time they have left for that. What are these people looking for? Simple, they are looking for you. They want to find a facilitator who introduces them to other people and makes it easier for them to interact with others. That is precisely the kind of person that is lacking in today’s society.
Have you considered being a person who organizes events to improve your social life and that of others? Go ahead, because everyone is waiting for you.
- THE IMPORTANCE OF YOUR SOLITUDE
One of the biggest secrets to having an unparalleled social life is that you know how to be well with yourself in solitude in order to be great with others. Only then will you understand that you do not need anyone to complete your life and the people who will be part of your life will have been chosen by you really and not by inertia.
- YOUR SOCIAL SPHERE POWER TO THE REST
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A careful social life can bring you many important things. When you have a social sphere in abundance and of which you have been concerned to cultivate conscientiously, you can reach out to the other spheres of your life. You will have more friends, you may have better partners, even if you have more contacts, it is very likely that your professional life will improve. That’s why social interaction is so important.
- BREAK YOUR SHIELD BEFORE FEAR THAT OTHERS FAIL
It may be that the shyness or fear that you feel when interacting with other people is a shield that you have put on yourself so that others do not hurt you. You feel fear that other people will fail you, but in life you are to create bonds and the most incredible thing that exists is precisely this. If you never risk creating these bonds you will never find extraordinary people like you. You can also think that you do not deserve to have an incomparable social life, but you really do deserve it and you must take the risk to get it.
Achieving a successful social life is in your hands. Therefore, if you want to improve your social skills and create better relationships with others here you have a completely free class with which you will start to put into practice very useful tricks for your life. Make sure you do not stay out as it will be available only for a certain number of people and for a limited time. Click here to receive your free class.